This may sound mean. But from reading what you have been posting lately... maybe its time to get new friends. High school friends are great and all, but college is the time to explore meeting new people and its okay to branch out from the ones who aren't making you the best You that you can be
Thanks for your input. But my friends are great, Its me thats the problem right now. And i have made new friends they are great too. I just have so many insecurities. I am overemotional. And i tend to ruin relationships because of it.
Trying to have a great time is becoming harder and harder.
I love my friends they are fantastic and i always have a great time with them. But lately its like i have to push down the negative comments that pop into my head constantly. “No one likes you” “You are stupid” “Stop talking” “No one wants to talk to you” “That person you are about to text? yeah just stop they are going to roll their eyes when they see who is texting them.”
I cant deal with these negative insecruites much longer. Im at my breaking point. I want to cry all the time, I hate the way i look, I suck at school, and I cant seem to do anything right.
Hiya! I just love your advice. You're so good at it. So can you help me out? I'm confused what exactly is the difference between "hanging out" and "going out" when it's two people who like each other and know how the other feels but haven't really done anything about it yet. Do you know what I mean?
Thank you so much love! That means a lot!! Okay to me hanging out and going out is when you are testing the waters. And its just you two so when he like takes you to dinner or you watch a movie together. and then dating is when you make it official. aka boyfriend and girlfriend, exclusive. I hope this helped? let me know if it didnt, or if you have more questions :) I love helping people and answering questions!
you give advice al of the time. its okay to turn the tables and ask for some yourself :)
Thanks Anon. Well anyone know how to stop missing your best friends like crazy? I havent seen a couple of them in so long and i just really need them right now. The worst part about that situation? Im pretty sure a couple of them dont miss me. Second problem? How do i stop letting the same boy play me. I thought he was different after basic training. He actually asked me to dinner. But hes not. He ignored my text, we never went to dinner, and now my newsfeed on facebook is full of pictures of him and other girls. Also i havent heard from Tyler in a while, Im not use to not talking to him. Im so confused and im so hurt and im just really upset.